Vibes fluctuate, character does not.
Vibes, the trendy word of this modern world. You must be gone through these quotes on social media such as 'Vibes never lie.'.....
'Surround yourself with people who give you good vibes.' and so on.
But, I no longer believe in these quotes because there are many people in your life who stay with you just because you gave them good vibes in the starting....and there are many more who will be with you till you will give them good vibes.
Once the vibes change, they will change.
But, the main thing is that there are times come in your life when you start getting negative vibes even from good people in your life.
Meanwhile, sometimes you also experience unexpectedly good vibes from wrong people as well.
In short , every person has good and bad side , in same way they have good and bad vibes that they exchange with others. We are so obsessed with these vibes that the moment we start feeling negative vibes from next person, we start thinking about cut-off and at the end, ignorance is the last option that we use /do with the people who don't have same vibes like us.
But, we need to change this myth because in bad circumstances or in aggression, frustration, depression, nobody can give you good vibes even not you.
Don't use vibes as parameter to judge someone so quickly.
The same person can give you different vibes in different perspectives, situations and scenarios. So, be patient, see their both colors and then make decision wisely whether you want to keep them in your life or not.
Always remember,
"Vibes fluctuate ,character does not."
Be kind, even at the cost of self-respect.
"Sometimes, I don't believe in self respect because....
If your self respect stops you to help your enemies,
If it stops you to admire your hater's good deeds,
If it stops you to respect other's right opinion,
If it stops you to forgive thankless people in your life,
Then you don't need self-respect, you need kindness."
Have you ever noticed how much better you treat others when you've dealt best with yourself? In a pressure-filled ambience, it's not difficult to work through lunch, work through dinner, and replying queries at 11 pm.
Yet, the world frequently rights itself when we pause for a minute to inhale, survey what we need, and look for it. (Sleep? A relaxed meal, anyone?)
Be thoughtful to yourself when you think about what happens to anyone. Be kind and never make others the target of your aggression or frustration that we truly feel about ourselves.
It can feel great to calm these disturbing feelings from ourselves onto others,
But for how long ?
Everybody has difficulties , many stowed away from sight. By then when we are tolerant, we are seeing our normal human condition.
Compassion can guide us to acts of kindness. Maybe we keep our mouth shut rather than getting down on the bad behavior or abuse someone.
On the other hand we sort out a private chance to ask concerning whether everything is extraordinary. Occasionally, kindheartedness is offering to get coffee, or bringing back a supper from a lunch.
While we might not have control over someone else, we do have power over ourselves. What's the significance here to be our best selves? Isn't being kind in the blend of decisions we have every single day?
We can't make and force any other individual to be humble and caring, but let not the ignorance and rudeness of others stops you to be kind.
No matter what is going on, how is the good or bad another person.
No matter what is going on, how is the good or bad another person.
Always be kind to every kind not only mankind .
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