It's 10 important life lessons that you must learn from an early age:


1. Money will never solve

 your real problem.

Money is a tool; Commodities that buy your needs and some "desires," but it's not a panacea for your problem.

There are many people who live very little, but have a life that is amazingly full and happy  and unfortunately there are many people who live quite a lot, but have a very sad life.

Money can buy a good house, great cars, extraordinary shoes, even a little security and some comforts of creatures, but cannot improve damaged relationships, or cure loneliness, and "happiness" . If you expect "things" that you can buy to "make it better," you will never be happy.


2. Don't rush- Work

 with your own pace.

Often when we are young, just starting our adult journey, we feel as if we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan our life, experience everything, try to find out the purpose of our lives, and do everything at the same time.

Slow down. Let your life be revealed. Wait a minute to see where it will take you, and take the time to weigh your choice.

Enjoy every bite of food, take the time to look around, let others complete the side of their conversation.  

Work towards your destination and make plans for future commendable, but hurrying forward to whatever is a one-way ticket for fatigue and a good way to skip you.


3. You can't please 

everyone.

You don't need everyone to agree with you or even like you. This is the human nature you want to have, be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness.

Other people cannot give you the validation you are looking for. It must come from inside.

Speak, remain on your weapon, confirm yourself when you need, demanding respect, remains loyal to your values. This is what you need to do to stop being a pleasant person.


4. Your health is your

 most valuable asset.


Health is a priceless treasure - always appreciates, nurtures, and protects it. Good health is often wasted in young people before they have the opportunity to appreciate it for what it's worth.

We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to.

Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers - a list of many diseases that can be prevented largely, so keep your health now, or you will regret it later.


5. You don't always

 get what you want.

No matter how carefully you plan and how difficult you work, sometimes things don't work as you want  and it's okay.

We have all this hope; The predetermined vision of what our "ideal" life will look like that, but too often, not that the reality of life we ​​do.

Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds in the middle. Sometimes we have to fail to find the right way and sometimes we just need to try a few things before we find the right direction.


6. It's not all about you.


You are not the center of the universe. It's very difficult to see the world from your own outside perspective, because we always focus on what happens in our own lives. what should I do today? What does this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What I want?


It is normal to be very aware of everything that happens in your own life, but you need to pay attention to what is happening around you, and how things affect others in the world as you do in your own life. This helps keep things in perspective.


7. There is no shame

 in not knowing.

No one knows everything. No one has all the answers. There is no shame in saying "I don't know." Pretending to be perfect doesn't make you perfect. It only makes you neurotic to keep the misforms of perfection produced.

We have the idea that there is a kind of stigma or shame in recognizing our limitations or uncertain, but we can't know everything. We all make mistakes and sometimes mess up. We learn when we leave, it's alive.

Besides that - no one likes to know everything. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh much more relatable.


8. Love is more than 

a feeling; This is the 

choice.

Early excitement explosion, fast love and passion do not last long. But that does not mean long-term love is not possible.

Love is not just feeling; This is the choice you make every day. We must choose to let interference pass, to forgive, to be good, to respect, to support, loyal.

Relationship resisted. Sometimes it's easy and sometimes it's very difficult. It's up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship.


9. Perspective is a

 beautiful thing.

Usually, when we are worried or upset, it's because we have lost perspective. Everything that happens in our lives looks so big, very important, so does or die, but in a big picture, this single Hikcup often means nothing.

The fight we are experiencing, the work that we don't get, a little real or imaginable, unexpected needs to shift your eyes, the things we want, but don't understand. Most are not a problem 20, 30, 40 years from now. 

It's hard to see the long term when everything you know is short term, but unless it threatens the lives, just leave it, and continue.

This is why your perception is your reality.


10. Don't just accept

 anything.

We often don't appreciate what we have to disappear: it includes your health, your family and friends, your work, money you have or think you will have tomorrow.

When you are young, it seems your parents will always be there, but they won't do it. You think you have a lot of time to contact your old friend or spend time with a new one, but you don't. You have money to spend, or you think you will have it next month, but you might not.

Nothing in your life that is not guaranteed will be there tomorrow, including what you love.

This is a life lesson that is difficult to learn, but maybe the most important of all:

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Life can change in an instant.

Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.


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